Co Biblia mówi o wampirach energetycznych?

Oczywiście biblia nic nie wspomina o takim pojęciu, ale częstokroć czujemy się po spotkaniu z osobą o takich cechach jak wypompowani.

Wszyscy znamy ten typ  – po kilku godzinach wokół jednego z tak zwanych “wampirów energetycznych” czujesz się przygnębiony, wyczerpany, zmęczony, zepsuty i zdezorientowany.

Niektórzy ludzie mogą wejść do pokoju i słońce zniknie. Kwiaty więdną w ich obecności i nagle życie wydaje się takie szare. To są wampiry energetyczne.

Kim  jest wampir energetyczny?

Termin wampir energetyczny zwykle odnosi się do kogoś, kto ssie (stąd porównanie do wampira) życie  i energię prosto od ciebie. Możesz być w najbardziej pozytywnym i radosnym nastroju swojego życia, ale kilka godzin spędzenia czasu z jedną z tych osób i jesteś gotowy, by krzyczeć. Jeśli nie masz wystarczająco dużo siły, to ulegasz jego nastrojowi tracąc swą energię.

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Narcissist/Toxic Parents Turn Your Children Against You – WHY? (Narcistický rodičia obrátia Vaše deti proti Vám – Prečo?)

Narcissistic Parents always try to turn the children against you. They do not care about raising healthy children, they only care about raising children to be on „their side‘. It’s always about winning and punishing – never about caring about their children.

Narcissism and Capacity for Change (Narcizmus a potenciál pre zmenu)

Various forms of narcissism have differing implications for therapy.

It is not unusual today for individuals to be labeled as narcissistic by family members, friends, or co-workers. It has become a popular concept and, according to some experts, a more common problem among today’s Generation Y than among prior generations (Twenge, 2006). Other experts disagree about the change in prevalence. Most notably, Dr. Craig Malkin has written comprehensively on the subject of narcissism (Malkin, 2015) and has concluded that the prevalence of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (a specific diagnosable form) remains unchanged at 1% of the population. The contradictions are head-spinning, especially when you take into account all of the various forms of this personality style and all of the labels given to these forms.

It is somewhat helpful to know that most of the experts at least agree that there are different forms of narcissism. The most basic difference is that between what most have called “grandiose narcissism” versus “vulnerable narcissism” (Wink, 1991; Dickinson and Pincus, 2003). The grandiose narcissist is described as arrogant, entitled, exploitative, and envious. He maintains his own self-esteem by self-enhancement, denial of weaknesses and demands of entitlement. He may become angry and aggressive (at least verbally) when his needs are not met. In contrast, the vulnerable narcissist is overly self-inhibited and appears modest, but actually has grandiose expectations for himself and others. The failure to meet his own high expectations as well as the failure of others to meet his expectations often leads to anger, disappointment, shame, and social withdrawal. Both types feel entitled, lack empathy, and exploit others to meet their own needs.

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The Communal Narcissist: Another Wolf Wearing a Sheep Outfit (Komunitný narcizmus- ďaľší vlk v ovčom rúchu)

In his book Rethinking Narcissism, Dr. Craig Malkin distinguishes between three types of narcissists—the extrovert, the introvert, and the communal.

The extrovert is the easy-to-spot kind whose grandiosity is presented in Technicolor, the preener and the manipulator we’re most familiar with. The introvert (also called the “covert” narcissist) is somewhat more confounding because he or she lacks outward braggadocio and may have a self-effacing or vulnerable manner which belies the way he or she feels superior to everyone. But the communal narcissist is entirely something else. I hadn’t heard of this category until I read Malkin’s descriptions, and perhaps you haven’t, either. This third type of narcissist is a relative newcomer to the party; the designation is only a bit over a decade old.

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